The
difficulties in representing Jesus in your sport whilst away
from home
Representing Christ in your sport can take a lot of
courage and faith. It can be especially challenging when it
comes to playing sport away from home. Whether you go away
representing your team, region, or even country,
there are always difficulties.
Being away from your family, friends and sometimes normal
coaches and training environments means that representing
Jesus can be even more tricky than at home. You may be going
away to places either within the UK or abroad with people
who you haven’t met before and may face new situations and
environments that you have never experienced.
For me, when going away with people who I don’t know all
that well, I am tempted just to fit in with them and blend
in with the team, even if I know that some of the stuff they
do is wrong. It can be scary standing out just because you
are different or a Christian or don’t agree with some of the
things the rest of the team do. With most tours or
competitions away from home, the banter between rival teams
can become quite cutting and hurtful. It can be difficult
not to join in with this “psyching out” because of the fear
of rejection by team mates.
It’s also really common for teams to take over the local bar
or pub of wherever they are. Most of the team drinks far too
much, especially in other countries where alcohol is
cheaper. Not joining in with getting drunk can be a real
challenge and test of faith. Another thing that I find
difficult when competing away from home is the pressure to
do well. Everyone, especially your team mates, wants you to
achieve and it can be very difficult if you don’t perform or
play as best as you would have liked. It often feels that
you have let down everyone who wanted you to do well.
Another major difficulty that I find faces me is that whilst
I’m away is that I tend to spend less time with God than
normal. This is because there is a different routine or
timetable than at home, and my time with God is more often
than not the thing that is reduced or scraped altogether.
It is a real effort to find time in the day and it can be very
challenging.
When I’m competing away from home, I find it very helpful to
remember that I deserved my place in whatever competition,
event or tour I attend. Going away with my team is a
fantastic experience and often a great learning curve, no
matter how well I have done or what I have achieved. Using
your God-given talents is awesome opportunity, especially
when you’re using them to glorify Him in your sport.
I’ve also found that by standing up for what you believe is
right your team mates will tend to respect you more, even if
they don’t necessarily show it. Also, by trying to play in a
way that honours Christ, members of your team will notice
that there is something different and this can provide
perfect opportunities to explain about God’s amazing love
for us.
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I also find it very helpful to remember
that even though you may be away from your family, friends
and coaches, they are still very proud of you no matter what
the outcome of your trip away. And also, above all, that God
is always there and never leaves your side whilst you’re
away from home. He loves seeing you use your gifts for His
glory and even though representing Christ away from home is
difficult, God will never challenge you above what you can
handle.
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Your words and
actions will have a very positive effect on your
team mates and you don’t have to worry about fitting
in. |
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