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Hey Stephanie.
This sounds like a really hard scenario – For the bible tells us to love our neighbour, our enemy and even those that persecute you! – Matt 5 v43-48. You are called to love her with the kind of love that Jesus had – totally unconditional. This means that your love for her is not based upon what she does or what you can get out of it. However, many people understand that love to be totally submissive. This cannot be the case. In love God disciplines the ones he loves. He makes us aware of our failings and brings them to our attention so that we may glorify him more. This means that it would be a good thing to have a chat with your friend to explain your position and why the girls in your team aren’t happy with her attitude. Then I am sure you will be able to move forward in your friendship and your sport.
Hey Lauren,
Thanks for your email - do make sure you sign up on the youth pages of the website of Christians in Sport to receive weekly encouraging emails and news about all that is happening. It should keep you well plugged into the youth department network! There are a couple of footballers in the premier league who have gone public about their faith in Jesus: Linvoy Primus and Tim Howard are perhaps the best examples! The TV pundit Gavin Peacock is also a Christian and has a great testimony you should be able to find on the internet! All the best in your search, Ian |
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Hey Claire, Great question, thanks!! – I think God has given you different gifts and abilities to be used by Him. One of those magnificent gifts is to be a gymnast and he asks you to use that gift for Him. That does not mean however that this gift is any better or more important than any other. The giver of all good things bestows gift after gift on us and says ‘now go and use them for me’. You have to make hard decisions in life. Often, human nature tells us to duck out of things if the going gets tough but it also might be time for you to use other gifts and passions. Either way the most important things is that you continue to trust in Jesus and represent Him well whatever you do!! Philippians 4v6-7 should be helpful during your decision making!! Go for it!! Ian
Dear Kelly, Thanks for your request! It is hard plucking a bible verse out of the air and relating it to your circumstances, even though there are so many! I guess my comment would be to help the team understand the great God behind the bible, that the bible is all about him and not primarily about our individual situations. Once they understand this, then verses like Heb 12v 1-2 really make sense. What about Colossians 3 v 2 “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things” Knowing that you basketball players get jumping to such heights!! Go well and represent Christ well in your basketball.
Rachel, It is thrilling to hear stories of young people who are striving hard to represent Jesus in their sport. Know that you are not on your own!! At present we have 120 young people like you around the country who say they will represent Jesus in their sporting environment. They are on their own in their clubs yet a faith in Christ binds them together. It is tough being a Christian – especially when those around you are not, but press on! Hebrews 10-12 should be a great encouragement. Make sure you sign up to represent Christ on the website so we can support you. If you are in the 6th form consider the New Year conference and check out the ‘and the winner is’ bible studies which can help the Christian to represent Christ well. Press on towards the prize that awaits you in Christ Jesus – the greatest prize of all. Ian ______________________________________________________________________________ Stephanie thanks for your question. At Christians in Sport we believe that God speaks today through the Bible. If the Bible is taught well and the real message is explained about Jesus – who he was and what he came to do, then it is God’s job to open eyes that are blind. I know for me, when I was a youngster my eyes were blinded to the truth. I kind of guessed that it was all good but didn’t really believe in Jesus. Yet in God’s time he enabled me to see who Jesus really was – God opened my blind eyes!! There is a helpful passage in 2 Cor 4v 1-6. Paul talks about the role of God and the role of people in telling others. People must simply explain God’s word without distorting and deceiving and God will let his light shine in the heart of the listeners. I truly hope that God has done that for you. Check out the rest of the website for helpful bible studies for you to do to keep finding out who the man Jesus really was. Sarah, Great to hear that you are trying to represent Christ in your sports team. The things you talk about are key issues and will be the real testers for young people now and even more as they grow up into adult sport.
The swearing issue I am sure most people struggle with – a good resource is ‘And the winner is’ available on the website. These studies help us realise that as God reigns more in my life then it is him who is able to transform me from within. It talks about how we can best represent Him with the help of God. We want young people to Pray for lost friends, Play in a way that honours God (both on and of the pitch) and Say something of the good news of Jesus.
How ever hard it is, you must stand up and be different and this shows most in drinking issues. I won't tell you what I think you should do. I realise the pressures are massive but I also know that it is a bigger privilege standing up for Christ. Work out how you will approach it, if you decide not to drink at all, remember it is only through God's strength you are able to pull it off. Depend upon Him!! Go well Sarah, Ian Dear D Sport brings out so many different emotions in people. I guess I used to feel very much like yourself almost to the point where I nearly packed in playing sport altogether. The break through for me was when I understood exactly where my identity was and who I was playing for.
The Bible tells me that if I am a Christian I am a new creation, the old has gone and the new has come – 2 Cor 5v17. That means that whatever happens – win, lose or draw I am still a Christian. If I understand that, my identity is totally caught up in Christ so my audience should be for him alone. If I play for friends, coaches even parents I try hard to prove my worth and it forces me have a ‘win at all costs’ attitude. It is this added pressure that can often force us into a state of nervousness and we don’t enjoy our sport.
A verse from 1 Peter as He writes to people in extreme danger of persecution – Chapter 5 v7 ‘Cast all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you.’ I am sure that applies to us today too! Have an audience of 1. Dear Emma, This is the big thing about representing Christ in our sport. Christians in Sport’s strap line is – pray, play say. Taken from Col 4v2-6
Pray for lost friends – at the end of the day it is only God who can open blind eyes to the truth.
Play in a way that honours God – using His talents he has given you for His glory.
Say something of the good news of Jesus.
If you are doing the first 2, you can be assured that the opportunities for the 3rd will happen, you won't have to try and make the opportunities yourself. You need to be sure of what you believe in and work hard at being able to communicate that. The Good Book Company produce some really good 2ways2live leaflets that explain the essence of the gospel. Check out their website http://www.thegoodbook.co.uk/. If you are in the 6th form, it would be great to see you at the New Year Conference where we have streams of evangelism training. Hope this helps. Ian Simon great to hear that you are a Christian and willing stand up for Christ in your football club – (sign up to represent Christ by the way!) As a young lad in that environment it can be the toughest situation ever, tough enough to push us very close to getting out of there. Stick with it – As you say God has given you a gift and has placed you in that environment to be a bright light to friends who are lost. The new book, available to buy off this website called ‘and the winner is’ would be perfect to get your teeth into and help you be a Christian in your football club – get it!! Hope this season is a promising one – be a legend, don’t follow the crowd and stand up for Christ. |
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